Encounter weekend worksheets the divine exchange

Now pray the following prayer for each person on your list:

3. 
   RELEASE FROM BITTERNESS
   

Jesus said, ‘If you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.’ (Matthew 6:15)

Dear heavenly Father, thank you for loving me so much that you sent your only Son to die for me. Thank you that he bore all my sins on the cross, and that now I am forgiven. Please show me now anyone I am unwilling to forgive, in order that I may forgive them. Please show me also anyone whose forgiveness I need to seek, and what I need to do about it. I ask this in Jesus’ name.

1. 
   Let God bring to mind people and incidents he wants you to deal with now. (Don’t be surprised if he reminds you of people who are dead, or far away – you may still need to forgive them.) Write them down on the checklist. If you feel God is the one who has hurt you, write him down too – that bitterness also needs to be dealt with.
   
2. 
   Read the following and see if God points out any other specific incidents. If so, write them down.
   

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  betrayed by someone I trusted
  
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  abused (physically or verbally)
  

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  rejected by Mum, Dad, someone close, mate, friends, boy/girl-friend, spiritual leader, church, God (they’re unfair, I feel abandoned, misunderstood)
  
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  anger toward Mum (she’s too strict, angry, or doesn't care)
  
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  anger toward Dad (he’s too strict, angry, or doesn't care)
  
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  jealous of others that have something that I want or in a relationship
  
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  unforgiving toward someone who has hurt me
  
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  unhappy with life, family, distant with others, loneliness, with self
  
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  not loved by Mum, Dad, family, church, God; I feel neglected, overlooked
  

3. 
   Look at the people or incidents you have written down. Acknowledge the hurt that you feel or felt. Don’t suppress your feelings, or your forgiveness may not be from the heart. (Forgiveness must be from the heart – Matthew 18:35.) Don’t suppress your feelings even if they have been caused by someone important to you (God, Mum, Dad, Spouse).
   
4. 
   Look at the cross where Jesus bore the pain of your sin so that you may be forgiven. Forgiveness is unfair and costly; but Jesus did it for you, and therefore it is OK for you to forgive in your turn.
   
5. 
   Accept the cost of forgiveness. Agree to live with the injustice, and with the unavoidable consequences of the person’s sin against you. Remember what Christ suffered for you.
   
6. 
   Decide now to forgive. Do not pray, ‘Lord, help me.,’ nor, ‘Lord, I want to forgive.’ Pray simply, ‘Lord, I forgive ________ for __________.’ Decide to let them off the hook: let go of your right to get even, for ever. Do not hold their sin against them. The debt is written off.
   
7. 
   Ask God to heal the hurt in your past.
   
8. 
   (After this weekend:) Get in touch with any to whom you need to apologize, as the Lord leads you.
   

Dear heavenly Father, I know that I have rebelled in my heart against you. In my pride, I have chosen to go my own way, and have centred my life around myself rather than around you. I have not denied myself, taken up my cross and followed Jesus. I have trusted in my own strength and resources.

I realize that doing these things gives the enemy a foothold in my life.

Please forgive me, and by the blood of Jesus remove any foothold that my rebelliousness and self-centredness has given any evil spirit. Please show me specific areas of my life where I am being rebellious or proud, and enable me to submit fully to you. Give me true humility, so that I do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but consider others better than myself (as you tell me to in Philippians 2:3). Give me the same attitude and desire to serve that Jesus has. I choose to submit to those you place in authority over me, according to your will. I choose to be humble rather than proud. I pray all this in Jesus’ name.

Ephesians 5:21 (one another)

Hebrews 13:17 (church leaders).

1 Peter 2:13-17 (civil government)

1 Peter 2:18 (employer)

1 Peter 3:1 (husbands)

1 Peter 5:5 (elders)

Write on your checklist any areas of rebellion, including any not mentioned above.
If God commands us to submit to someone and we refuse, we are not only rebelling against that person, but we are also rebelling against God. Ask God’s forgiveness for each rebellion you have noted on your list, and choose to submit to all those God puts in authority over you, in the way he wants. The following suggested prayer may help:
Lord God, I confess that I have not submitted fully to ___________________. I have sinned against you, and I ask you to forgive me. I now give them their rightful authority over my life. Help me to honour and obey them in all things good, and not to undermine their authority by anything I say or do.
The root of rebellion is pride. Allow God to show you any areas where pride is a problem. The following statements may help:

I want to go my own way more than God’s.

I want to please people more than God.

I trust my own ability and resources more than God’s.

I think myself more important than others.

I think I am more humble than others.

I think my ideas and opinions are better than others.

I want to control others more than to exercise self control.

I want the recognition that comes from degrees, titles and positions.

I want to get the credit I deserve.

I find it difficult to admit I was wrong.

Write on your checklist those areas you have noted, and any others God shows you.
For each area on your check list, pray a prayer like the following:

Lord, I acknowledge that I __________________________(say what the problem is). Please forgive me for my self-centredness. I now choose to seek your honour and glory in this area. I choose to humble myself, to take up my cross and follow you.

5. 
   RELEASE FROM NEGATIVITY
   

Dear heavenly Father, please show me any areas of my life where I am too negative. I command any spirit of negativity to leave me, in the name of Christ.

Heavenly Father, I confess that I have been too negative in ________________(Tell God all about it.) I am sorry for my faithless view of things, and I ask you by your Spirit to enable me to see them from your point of view. I choose to think about those things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely and admirable¹⁴. I choose to see myself as I am in union with Christ. I choose to use my tongue not to be negative but to build people up, according to their needs¹⁵. Please help me to be thankful in all circumstances¹⁶, and always to praise and pray. Please help me to cast all my anxieties on to you, because I know you care for me¹⁷.

b) Take time to think about Jesus, and to rejoice in his love for you and what he has done for you.

c) Think about what you are anxious, and ask yourself, ‘What do I want God to do about this?’

d) Ask God to do it – be very specific.

e) Read Romans 8:28-39. Note especially verses 28, 32, 38-39. Thank God for those promises.

f) Thank God for hearing you and for caring about the matter you’ve asked him to deal with.

g) Leave it with him!
KEYS TO FREEDOM

5. 
   RELEASE FROM SINS
   

1. 
   Realize who you are in Christ, and how you have been set free both from the punishment of sin and from the power of sin by his death on the cross. You are united to him in his death and in his new life, and that is why sin has lost its power over you. You don’t have to understand it, only to believe it (Romans 6:1-14).
   

2. 
   Pray:
   

3. 
   Write down any sins that the Lord puts into your mind to deal with. They may be habitual sins, or they may be one off. Include those occasions when you feel you have been violated by others and made ‘unclean’. (Note that the Holy Spirit will not bring to mind those sins that have already been repented of, confessed and dealt with.)
   

4. 
   Read through the following and write on your checklist any more sins that the Lord shows you have a problem with.
   

Suicide (thought of, or have tried)

Lust (sexual films, fantasies, thoughts of having sex)

Fear (of being alone, not living up to God's/parents expectations, the future, sinning, life, not having a mate, death, commitment)

Thoughts of being with someone of the same sex (sexually)

I have a problem with telling the truth

I tend to have unclean thoughts

I lack in the area of prayer

I lack in the area of reading of the word

Heart-Emotions Relationships

Lack of love toward husband

Uncaring for kids

Bad provider (I have not provided the way I know I should)

Idolatrous of ministry (particular spiritual leaders)

Racism (I feel anger, hurt, resentment toward other race(s))

Self-righteousness (I have no problems, I feel this encounter is for others, not me)

Denominational pride (I feel my denomination is better than others)

Envy (in my heart towards other's ministry, mate, social wealth, life etc..)

Bitterness

Dead traditions and religion (going through the actions without really meaning them)

I have a spirit of competition (I tend to feel I have to do better than others in any area – including spiritual areas.)

Body Physical

Sexual habits (Petting, heavy petting, masturbation, sex) I have been sexually abused (raped, molested, incest)

I have a problem with drugs (weed, cocaine, heroine, LSD, etc..)

I have a problem with alcohol/liquor

I am obsessed with my physical appearance

I have an eating disorder (Bulimia – I make myself vomit after I over-eat, anorexia – I starve myself)

I enjoy looking at pornographic magazines or images on the internet (naked women, naked men)

I do, or have, called a sex hot line or chat room

I go to strip clubs

I have a problem with stealing

I swear and say bad words

I am lazy (when I know I should be doing what needs to done, but choose not to do; I find myself always saying I will do it tomorrow)

I have a problem with anger (I get angry easily, I have no control when I'm angry)

I choose to be at home as little as possible

I have a problem with activism (I have always to be involved in something, I never can enjoy just sitting and relaxing)

I am addicted to music

I have a problem with gambling (lotteries, pools, races, casinos, gaming machines).

I am addicted to the computer/ the internet/ games/ crosswords/ videos/ TV/ films/ my hobby

5. 
   Confess each sin to God and renounce it, using one of the prayers on the next page. If another person is involved with you in your sin, both renounce the sin and ask God to break any spiritual bonds that have developed between you. (1 Corinthians 6:16-20) If you are trapped in a cycle of sin-confess-be forgiven-same sin-confess, etc. then choose a trusted Christian person who will hold you in prayer and to whom you can be accountable as you seek by God’s grace to overcome this temptation. (1 John 1:9) Make a commitment to God to ask that person before the end of next week to help you in this way.
   

6. 
   Renounce every lie the devil feeds you (e.g. ‘God made me this way’, ‘I am evil’) and affirm the truth aloud. (James 4:7)
   

7. 
   Claim cleansing through the blood of Jesus, according to his promise (1 John 1:7-9) Pray:
   

8. 
   Present your body – and the individual parts of it – to God as instruments of righteousness. (Romans 6:13) Pray as follows:
   

General

Dear heavenly Father, I confess that I have sinned against you by doing _____. (Be specific about the sin). I renounce this misuse of my body and I ask you to break all bondages that Satan has brought into my life through this activity.

Sexual sins

Lord, I renounce (name the activity) with (name the person) and ask you to break that bond.

Homosexuality

Abortion

I renounce the lie of the devil that I can find peace and freedom by taking my own life. Thank you for the fact that Jesus Christ came so that I might have abundant life. I choose life in union with him.

Eating disorders or cutting yourself

I renounce the lie that my significance depends on my appearance or performance, and that changing these will affect my self-worth. I acknowledge that I sin, and that the harming of my body is itself a sin, but I renounce the lie that I am evil or that any part of my body is evil. I declare that the blood of Jesus cleanses me from all sin, and I renounce all ways of trying to cleanse myself from evil. I affirm the truth that I am totally accepted by Christ just as I am, and that in him I am truly special.

Substance or drug abuse, addiction to particular forms of entertainment

Lord, I confess that I have misused _________ (state what you have used - alcohol, tobacco, food, prescription or street drugs, music, TV, computer, and say why you think you did it). I have abused my mind and body. I ask your forgiveness, and I renounce any satanic connection or influence in my life through my misuse of these things. I commit myself to my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ to look after me and give me life in all its fullness, and I here and now make a commitment not to turn to any of these things, but to yield myself to the Holy Spirit. Heavenly Father, please fill me with the Holy Spirit. I ask these things in Jesus’ name.
KEYS TO FREEDOM

5. 
   RELEASE FROM SPIRITUAL BONDAGE
   

Declaration

By the authority which I have in Christ, I reject and disown all the sins of my ancestors, and break any curse that has been put upon me. I proclaim that I have been rescued from the dominion of darkness and brought into the kingdom of the Son God loves²⁰,and that I have been crucified²¹ and raised with Jesus Christ and I sit with him in heavenly places²². In the name of Jesus Christ I cancel all demonic activity passed on to me from my ancestors, I declare that all satanic assignments against me and my activities are null and void. I proclaim to Satan and all his forces that I belong to the Lord Jesus Christ, who bought me at the price of his own blood²³, and that you therefore have no claim whatsoever on me or my life. In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I now command every demon and familiar spirit: Leave me completely. I commit myself fully into the hands of God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit; and I undertake to love and serve him for the rest of my life.

Pray:

Heavenly Father, I do indeed commit myself to you. Words cannot express the gratitude I owe you for what you have done for me through Jesus Christ your Son, who loved me and gave his life for me²⁴. You made me alive with Christ, you raised me up with him and seated me with him in the heavenly places. You made me your child, a co-heir with Christ²⁵, and nothing can now separate me from your love in Christ Jesus my Lord²⁶.

I therefore present myself to you. All that I am, all that I have, I give to you. I offer you myself, my soul and body, to be a living sacrifice²⁷. I want your honour and glory, yours alone. Fill me with the knowledge of your will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding, that I may live a life worthy of you, and may please you in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of you, being strengthened with all power according to your glorious might²⁸ through your Spirit within me. May I, being rooted and grounded in love, have power together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge – that I may be filled to the measure of all your fulness.

Father, you are able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to your power that is at work within us. To you be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever!²⁹ Amen.

KEEPING THE VICTORY

Doubts

If under spiritual attack – eg being tempted to continue in the old way, with the suggestion that nothing has changed – realize that this is a spiritual attack by the deceiver, Satan. Recognize where the attack is coming from, resist the thoughts and tell the enemy, ‘In the name of Christ, go away. I am free because of what Jesus has done, and you cannot take my freedom from me.’

If new memories surface

If you remember past sins you have not yet confessed, or notice lies you have not renounced, then deal with them straight away: confess them, renounce them, choose the truth, trust God’s deliverance through the cross of Christ Jesus, praise and thank him. You may find it helpful to go through some or all of the Steps to Freedom again.
When you sin:

Immediately confess it, renounce it, choose the truth, trust the blood of Jesus to cleanse you (1 John 1:7-9), thank and praise him.

General:

1. 
   Be a member of a Christian fellowship where you can be truly yourself - ‘walk in the light’ (1 John 1:7) – and where you can ‘speak the truth in love’ (Ephesians 4:15). Cell groups aim to provide this sort of fellowship.
   

2. 
   Read your Bible daily, looking for what God is saying to you, in order to get to know, trust, love and obey him better. The only way to deal with the devil’s lies is to get to know the truth.
   

3. 
   Pray and praise God continually. Have ‘quality time’ with God, and also ‘practise the presence of God’: remind yourself that he is with you always, and enjoy his company.
   

4. 
   ‘Remain in Christ’ (John 15:5). You are as a ‘branch of the vine’, so remind yourself that he is the one who is giving you spiritual life and growth and effectiveness; depend on him for these things, and stay in touch with his will and his love.
   

5. 
   Guard your thoughts. Take responsibility for your thought life, reject the lie, watch against your imagination being led down the wrong path, choose the truth, and stand firm in your position in Christ as righteous, God’s beloved child, etc.
   

6. 
   Don’t drift! Make sure you have someone who will support you in your spiritual life and act as your mentor, to whom you can make yourself accountable. But don’t rely on them to do the work for you – you are the one to pray, think, read the Bible, and choose the truth. (If wounded in the battle so that you can’t pray or read, others may need to do it for you, but generally you must take responsibility for your own spiritual life.)
   

7. 
   Resist the devil. Put on the whole armour of God (see below).
   

The whole armour of God (Ephesians 6:10-18)

Prayerfully put on these pieces of spiritual armour:

1. 
   The belt of TRUTH. ‘I put on truth as a belt around my waist. I choose to believe the truth as God reveals it in the Bible, and I choose to live by it, so that I am honest and true. I reject all Satan’s lies.’
   

2. 
   The breastplate of RIGHTEOUSNESS. ‘I put on the righteousness of Christ, and I present to God my whole body as an instrument of righteousness. I affirm that no-one can condemn me, for Christ is for me.
   

3. 
   The shoes of the gospel of PEACE. ‘I put on as my shoes the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. I am at peace with God through my faith in Jesus Christ, and I choose to make every effort to live at peace with my neighbour. I announce that I am ready to be a peacemaker, promoting peace with God and peace between people.’
   

4. 
   The shield of FAITH. ‘I take to shield me from Satan’s accusations and temptations my faith in God’s truth , his promises, and in Jesus who has won the victory over Satan and all his forces. I believe, because God is faithful.’
   

5. 
   The helmet of SALVATION. ‘I put on the helmet of salvation: through Jesus Christ, I am saved, I have eternal life, and no assaults of the evil one can change that, however well or badly I do in the battle.’
   

6. 
   The sword of the Spirit, which is the WORD OF GOD. ‘I take the Bible as my sword against the devil, and I will speak God’s word in the name of Jesus in order to put the devil to flight.’ (Just saying the one word, ‘Jesus’, is enough to put demons to flight if you are being attacked.)
   

7. 
   PRAY IN THE SPIRIT. Pray fervently, meaning what you say. Pray for those in the spiritual front line (either attacking or being attacked by evil) because of their work or ministry. If you have the gift of tongues, use that gift often.
   

AN ALL SAINTS’ MEMBERS COVENANT

‘We aim to grow in relationship with God – Father, Son and Holy Spirit – and to bring others into that relationship.’

Having received Christ as my Lord and Saviour and been baptised, and being in agreement with the aims, beliefs and organisation of All Saints’ Church, Allesley, I now commit myself to God and to the other members of the church, and I undertake to do the following under the guidance of the Holy Spirit:

1. 
   I will aim to grow my love for God
   

… by regular private prayer and Bible Study

… by regular worship at All Saints

… by giving generously

2. 
   I will aim to grow my love for my neighbours
   

… by praying for them

… by using opportunities God gives me to serve them

… by promoting justice and reconciliation

3. 
   I will aim to grow my love for other Christians
   

… by belonging to a cell and learning to love those in it

… by being friendly towards those I don’t know

… by following and supporting my leaders

4. 
   I will aim to grow my disciple-making
   

… by discovering my gifts and talents

… by learning to live a godly life

… by learning to use opportunities God gives me to speak about Jesus and to promote his kingdom.

Signed

Date

1 2 Timothy 3:15-17.

2 James 4:7.

3 Ephesians 6:10.

4 John 15:8

5 1 Timothy 1:5.

6 Matthew 22:37-39.

7 John 13:34.

8 Matthew 28:19.

9 Ephesians 4:15.

10 Galatians 5:16

11 Ephesians 5:18.

12 John 16:13.

13 Colossians 1:10.

14 Philippians 4:8.

15 Ephesians 4:29

16 Ephesians 5:20.

17 1 Peter 5:7.

18 Romans 6:11

191 Corinthians 10:13.

20 Colossians 1:13.

21 Galatians 2:20.

22 Ephesians 2:6.

23 1 Corinthians 6:20, 1 Peter 1:19.

24 Galatians 2:20.

25 Romans 8:16,17.

26 Romans 8:39.

27 Romans 12:1.

28 Colossians1:10,11.

29 Ephesians 3:16-21.

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